Who do I session with?
I session with all walks of life and do not discriminate based on gender, sexual orientation, race, ethnicity, religious affiliation, ability, size, or prior experience with BDSM and kink. I do not session with people who are disrespectful, lie, or push boundaries. You must be of legal age.
Where do I hold sessions?
I hold in-call sessions at a beautiful, fully-equipped dungeon in Oakland and San Francisco. At this time, I am only offering in-call sessions.
When am I available?
My availability is usually between Tuesdays and Fridays and typically is quite limited, but accommodations can be made for other days provided I am given proper notice. I expect at least one week's notice prior to bookings and do not offer same-day bookings. I may be able to accommodate bookings with less than one week's notice for repeat clients.
What is my tribute?
Donation is $300/hour.* See my Interests page for more information.
*Any type of play that requires additional prep/cleanup will require an additional surcharge donation.
Do I require a deposit or have a cancellation policy?
Yes, I require a $100 deposit (per hour) for new clients. You can send deposits through Cash App to $RubyRiots or Venmo to @Ruby-Riots (the notes sent with donations through these app must have no text: please leave the note blank if possible or use discreet, random emojis). This fee is subtracted from my hourly tribute and you pay the remaining donation in cash when we first meet.
The deposit ensures that you do not waste my time.
All cancellations must be submitted 48 hours or more in advance for deposits to be refunded. If I am given 48 hours or more notice through email, the deposit may be used within a month's time from the original date to secure a rescheduled booking. Cancellations made with less than 48 hours notice will forfeit the deposit and will no longer be refundable or transferable.
Do I have a screening process?
Yes, I require 2 references from professional providers for all new clients. References must include providers' name and email and/or phone number for me to contact them. Please ensure that you have received permission from providers to share their information as a reference and ask which form of contact they prefer. Additionally, please include links to providers' websites or their social media account if a website is not available.
Alternatively, if you are new to BDSM and kink or have no active references, you may send me a photo of your driver's license, passport, or ID (government-issued only). Personal information such as your home address may be blurred out, but I do need to see your name, date of birth, and picture.
Another option is to send a link to your public LinkedIn profile or business website where your name and contact information are visible.
Proof of vaccination is required in order to book with me.
What are my hard limits?
I do not engage in any illegal or sexual activities.
I do not allow any touching of my genitals or any part of my body without my permission. Nudity may be requested, but is highly unlikely and I reserve the right to deny it. I reserve the right to end the session early if I feel my boundaries are not being respected.
Do I offer switch or submissive sessions?
Yes. I offer submissive and switch scenes, but only offer limited services, which you can find under my Interests section. The more we play together and establish trust, the more options become available! (i.e. restrictive bondage)
Do I offer virtual sessions or customs?
Yes! I offer Skype calls, texting sessions, custom photosets, and custom videos. Tributes for video and phone calls are $50/15 minutes & texting sessions are $25/30 minutes. Custom photo sets are $25 for 5 photographs and custom videos are a $50 minimum, starting at $10 per minute, with $12/minute with another person. Any special add-ons, like anal, will be subject to an additional $50. I accept payment through Cash App, Venmo, and OnlyFans ($12/minute if you are paying through OnlyFans due to their processing fees). Complete my session request form to book a virtual session and complete my custom inquiry form to request a custom.
How can I contact you?
Please thoroughly read the FAQ, Interests, and Values pages before contacting me. I do not tolerate time-wasters. I try to respond to emails within 48 hours or less, but tend to be quite busy. Do not message me again if I haven't responded yet.