Values
As a professional dominatrix, I adhere to the following three core values and am interested in seeing those who align with these same beliefs.
Tributes & gifts are greatly appreciated but are not expected. An additional tip for showing your enjoyment of our time together and admiration for my craft, time, and energy is always welcome.
Respect
Honoring boundaries and consent (including an understanding of risk awareness) are of utmost importance to me. Hard limits should be communicated and safe words will be respected. I except us both to respect one another's boundaries. Polite and private exchanges, whether we are in the dungeon or communicating through email, are also of importance to me. Respect also includes valuing my time, whether it be through email exchanges or arriving on time, and arriving late can cut into your session time.
Communication
In order to understand one another's boundaries, limitations, and kinks, communication is key. Sometimes things come up last minute and you're running late: Please communicate that to me as soon as possible. Inform me of any medical issues or allergies I should be aware of. Tell me what gets you excited and what you do not want to do.
Cleanliness
Please shower prior to the session or arrive early if you need to shower before we start. If you intend to shower before we begin, please communicate that with me ahead of time. If we are doing any anal play, arrive clean and prepared. I am sensitive to fragrances and would appreciate you arrive with little or no fragrances. Requests for dirty feet or garments will be considered if proper notice is given.